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FUN Chat!!! **WOMEN ONLY**

*WOMEN ONLY* *RULE 1 - NO MEN* Men who chat will be BANNED All things FUNNY, HAPPY, & POSITIVE! · #AskWomenOver40_All_FUN_Chat!!!:reddit.com · channel c2_214d

The chat channel attached to r/AskWomenOver40 ran for 123 days before Reddit removed chat channels entirely. This is the surviving record: 7,999 messages from 1,057 people.

19 Jul 2025opened18 Nov 2025last message
123 days · 65.3 msg/day
7,999Messages
1,057People
241Images
1,219Reactions
415Replies
502Deleted

Every day the room was open

The room's busiest day was in its first fortnight. Everything after that is decline.

Peak was 495 messages on 26 Jul 2025. Colour marks activity: solid is a busy day, grey is a quiet one.

19 Jul 202518 Nov 2025
busiest days middling quiet

What was actually being said

The room's own vocabulary

These are the words this channel used far more than the rest of the archive did — the in-jokes, names and shorthand that only make sense if you were in here. Median message length: 39 characters.

TermUses
vagantesole72
morning365
everyone314
it's298
liliessofair51
hi312
i'm286
love271
ladies185
day265
hello258
cz96
MeasureValue
Median message length39
90th percentile138
Total words41,047
Messages asking a question14.4%

Messages by hour, UTC

When the room was awake

A 4.7 to 1 swing between the busiest and quietest hour — mostly one region, with a scattering elsewhere.

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Arrivals, departures and bans, by month

Almost nobody walked out. They were removed.

Only 180 people ever chose to leave this channel. Another 496 were banned, peaking at 203 in July — a moderation purge, not an exodus. What actually declined was arrivals: 541 joined in the first month, 10 in the last.

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joinedleftbanned

1,219 reactions

How the room responded

care
651
upvote
222
joy
176
wave
127
grin
12
facepalm
5
grimacing
5
doge
3

36 stickers

And what it sent instead of words

unknown6snoo_simple_smile5snoo4snoo_trollface3snoo_joy3snoo_hearteyes2redditgold2snoo_wink1pupper1doge1

Reddit's chat reaction and sticker sets were removed with the feature. These are preserved copies.

Who was in here

1,057 people passed through. A handful carried it.

The top poster sent 1,117 messages. Below them the curve collapses: 575 people posted once and never came back.

ParticipantMessagesShare
CZ1988_ mod1,11714.0%
VaganteSole mod1,09913.7%
LiliesSoFair mod80310.0%
StopMe29 mod2653.3%
Loud_cupcakexo2342.9%
SomethinShiney_452242.8%
Lolisamara1672.1%
EnvironmentalPast202 mod1441.8%
JacqueGonzales mod1281.6%
OftenMe1061.3%
tesseractjane951.2%
Odd_Revolution5546951.2%

Named here because you posted publicly in an open community channel. If you'd rather not be, ask us to remove you.

18 Nov 2025 · the end of the log

The last thing anyone said here

No announcement, no goodbye. The archive simply stops. Nobody in this conversation knew it was the last one.

StopMe29😆
StopMe29I have never ever taken the lid off!!!
VaganteSoleHello ladies I have been battling a crazy flu/covid/influenza for the past 3 weeks, was doing finally getting better and then began feeling a lot worse again. I hope you that have taken your flu shots! Whatever this is, is not going away easily!
VaganteSole@CZ1988_ I did some cleaning jobs in the past, this is how I was taught by a professional cleaning company - https://youtu.be/dJSRTBz1UXk?si=uUcN6G6nG2iDwQ1b
VaganteSoleAnd always flush with the lid down after you use the toilet, a lot of stuff splashes on to other surfaces in the toilet, including ourselves if the lid is not down when we flush!
CZ1988_HI @VaganteSole I am so sorry you have been so sick. Yes I always close the lid before flushing - everyone in my house does. The videos that show the aerosol spray are so gross. Toilet spray everywhere and on your toothbrush. fooey!
CZ1988_I watched the your toilet cleaning video - that's pretty much how I do it. It makes me laugh that this video for the "fast lazy way" has the women taking the lid off! haha
VaganteSoleI have only ever removed the lid of a toilet to replace it for a newer one, that's it. What do the comments say on that video? Are they calling that lady crazy?
CZ1988_I went back and looked at the comments. She said don't be afraid of chemicals and use a lot of cleaners so most of the comments were about that. Not that she casually took the toilet lid off to clean it and put it back! Lol
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