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Cast for β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή Heartbreak ♾️

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The chat channel attached to r/healingheartsminds ran for 314 days before Reddit removed chat channels entirely. This is the surviving record: 54,777 messages from 925 people.

9 Jan 2025opened18 Nov 2025last message
314 days Β· 174.6 msg/day
54,777Messages
925People
1,024Images
12,816Reactions
2,172Replies
1,019Deleted

Every day the room was open

The room's busiest day was in its first fortnight. Everything after that is decline.

Peak was 1,793 messages on 13 Jan 2025. Colour marks activity: solid is a busy day, grey is a quiet one.

9 Jan 202518 Nov 2025
busiest days middling quiet

What was actually being said

The room's own vocabulary

These are the words this channel used far more than the rest of the archive did β€” the in-jokes, names and shorthand that only make sense if you were in here. Median message length: 39 characters.

TermUses
theauldman1,040
gonidoinwork960
feel3,143
moogle654
ex2,187
i'm2,661
lacy758
back2,122
rachel799
because2,005
sorry1,772
feeling1,480
MeasureValue
Median message length39
90th percentile193
Total words340,440
Messages asking a question11.8%

Messages by hour, UTC

When the room was awake

A 11 to 1 swing between busiest and quietest hour. This was a single-timezone room, awake 21:00–03:00 UTC.

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Arrivals, departures and bans, by month

It never lost more people than it gained

Departures stayed below arrivals every month. What fell away was new arrivals: 282 joined in the first month, 64 in the last.

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joinedleftbanned

12,816 reactions

How the room responded

care
6,646
upvote
3,252
give_upvote
1,483
joy
956
wave
137
cry
81
doge
71
sob
32

58 stickers

And what it sent instead of words

upvote10snoo_hug9snoo_sad6unknown6snoo_tongue4cake3snoo_cry2partyparrot2redditgold2snoo_joy2

Reddit's chat reaction and sticker sets were removed with the feature. These are preserved copies.

Who was in here

925 people passed through. A handful carried it.

The top poster sent 17,285 messages. Below them the curve collapses: 168 people posted once and never came back.

ParticipantMessagesShare
gonidoinwork mod17,28531.6%
TheAuldMan764,9919.1%
rachel-lacy1,6733.1%
Creepy-Today82691,4632.7%
after-dawn mod1,3132.4%
The_Broken_Moogle9011.6%
meh93948951.6%
Brave-Flan-12218831.6%
Spirited-Pick-24958571.6%
tarcinlina8151.5%
Holiday_Evidence_2837851.4%
Tiri_vill4 mod7311.3%

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18 Nov 2025 Β· the end of the log

The last thing anyone said here

No announcement, no goodbye. The archive simply stops. Nobody in this conversation knew it was the last one.

GreenDutchmanHey does anyone know whoever decided to make it so that healing is not linear? I've got some choice words for the sneaky motherfucker
GreenDutchmanI would just LOVE IT if having a good day meant the next one will also be good
GreenDutchmanNow it's just like ohhhh welp guess it's another one of these days for no discernable reason whatsoever
GreenDutchmanVery cool, I love this system
Pinpindor36Being sick is worse alone. I had a bad day yesterday and had to cook, shovel the snow (in canada its snowing since last week), and take care of the house- pets even when sick and alone. I miss the partnership in thoses days.
gonidoinworkOh no. @Pinpindor36 so sorry about that.
Guilty-Fig7887I’m really struggling today and don’t know how to get past it. Feels like I’m reliving a nightmare I went thru 5 years ago with the same person. Thought I was safe from this ever happening again yet here I am
One_Education407It okay and I am sorry
The_Broken_Moogle@Guilty-Fig7887 That sounds awful, what helps you struggle less?
redditWe’re making changes to Reddit Chat to simplify how people connect. As part of these efforts, public chat channels will sunset in mid-November across desktop, mobile web, and the Reddit apps. Learn more(https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/15012434519316-What-are-chat-channels)
End of log Β· 2025-11-18 19:34:31 UTC Β· no further events recorded

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